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Listening to Music with a CI

Listening to Music with a CI

The week after CI activation, I plopped a favorite CD into the car player that flashed the song’s name on the screen – a familiar song. When the opening instrumentals began, I was astounded. Instead of drums and guitars, I heard screeching static. When the vocalist sang, I could distinguish it from the opening music. … Continue reading

Deafness and Tea: A Lesson in Resilence

Deafness and Tea: A Lesson in Resilence

I recently met my friend, Rebecca, for tea and to talk about our mutual interest in writing. It was the first meet-up with a friend in a public place since the cochlear implant activation.  We chose a table with a seat facing a wall. Sound tends to bounce around and echo in noisy tea rooms … Continue reading

I Am an Extrovert: Part Two of My Deaf Journey

The dark side of being a deaf extrovert is feeling cut off from people. When I can’t hear conversations, I feel isolated – while everyone else mingles seamlessly, hears the nuances in a speaker’s voice, and catches the joke. I nod along, smile like everyone else, and pretend to hear the punchline.  I don’t want … Continue reading

I Am Deaf: Part One

A week ago, I had cochlear implant surgery in my left ear. I can’t hear anything in that ear and won’t until the implant is activated later this month. I wear a hearing aid in my other ear, and it only amplifies noises. This means I am deaf.  I received a diagnosis of progressive bilateral … Continue reading